a new one to the list

So I've talked about the things that fertile people say to infertile people that hurts or wounds albeit it unintentionally. I have found a new one. Sitting at my preachers house last night watching his 3 kids and another one and one got in trouble for hitting... and he looks at me smiles and says just wait. Does it all the time. "Just Wait.... one day it will be you". Yeah I hope so! It's said in a "One day you will wait and see" type of way that feels like "You may wish you didn't wish for this", although I don't think it's meant that way. Yeah right now I'd love that. Because with the discipline and trouble that comes you also get the snuggles and "I love you" that I'd give my right arm for. Is it gonna be all roses and awesome all the time? Of course not... but I feel like the good outweighs the bad. Heck I've been waiting for over 2 years... 26 months to the day to be exact. And I have another 2 good years ahead of me. And people think waiting for 9 months is rough! If they only knew!!!!! Right now I don't think I'd complain over morning sickness, or not sleeping, or even an occasional temper tantrum. I don't think I'd ever appreciate those things however if I hadn't gone through this. So yeah... I can't wait... one day... hopefully.